It's funny how things happen sometimes.
Earlier today I was thinking about (finally) getting back to the blog. I had some things swirling around in my head. I had decided to write about my Auntie V. I found a plaque that she had given me when I was a little girl, and I brought it downstairs and took a picture of it to share with you all.
She will be 80 years old in December, but you'd never know it. She's as feisty as a 40 year old, and as zany as a gypsy. She lives in southwest KY in a little town.
We have plans to drive down for a visit in October.
My mom called me about an hour ago and told me that Auntie V had a heart attack today and is in the hospital. We don't know any more than that. This isn't her first one. She had open heart surgery a number of years ago, and she had a heart attack a few months ago. She had a pacemaker put in at that time.
I had called her on Saturday to wish her a Happy Mother's Day, and when I talked to her, she told me she wasn't feeling well. I didn't realize how sick she really was. I guess she didn't either.
I'm going to go ahead and write what I had swirling around in my head earlier today-before I knew Auntie V had another heart attack. But I do have to say, it sure is strange how things happen sometimes.
I have the best Aunt ever.
She is my buddy. My life-long pal. My zany-laugh at the strangest times-eat frozen yogurt with-get lost EVERY TIME we'd go anywhere together-animal loving Auntie. Anyone who has ever spent any time with her would agree she's a one-of-a-kind.
The children in her Sunday School class(yes, she still teaches Sunday School) introduce her as "weird" or "crazy". That's why they love her so much. She will say "I love weird and I love crazy, but I love weird more than crazy." She's a quirky one.
She always had time for me.
Growing up, she and I were together a lot. I would go over to her house on Sunday afternoons and play with all of her knick-knack animals.
I often refer to her as the Queen of Knick-knacks. She has a ridiculous amount of them.
She has two grandchildren around my age, and we would often spend the night at her house together. She would take us shopping at Woolworth. My parents always gave me a few dollars to buy something and Auntie V would say,
"Why don't you let me hold that money for you so you don't lose it."
"I won't lose it." I would reply.
Yeah, I lost it. Several times. She'd still buy me a little something anyway.
At night, all of us kids would be on the floor in our sleeping bags and she would tell us scary stories. She'd make sure to tell our favorite one too. And we would jump every time at the end, even though we knew what was coming.
I stayed with her a lot growing up. We would eat frozen yogurt for breakfast. And lunch. And dinner.
She taught me the joy of helping others.
She would take me with her to the nursing home to minister to people there. She brought me along to help her clean for a sick friend. She taught me how to serve others in the kitchen at church and down in the Baptist Center kitchen in Detroit.
She taught me how to look past the outside appearance of others, and not to judge. Instead, she would say, love them, and look past all that and look into their heart.
She was not afraid to knock me down a peg or two if I started to get "too big for my britches". In other words, no prideful attitudes allowed. Stay humble before the Lord and He will lift you up, she would say.
She didn't treat me like a child. She treated me like a person. She let me just be who I was-and I was a strange child-without judgement. She just let me be.
She taught me the value of a sense of humor. Even in the most tragic, heartbreaking situations, she and I could always find a way to laugh.
Laughter is good medicine.
Most importantly, she taught me to love. Love God. Love others. Above all other things, love. Love from your heart, even if you are not loved in return. Love.
I am so grateful for the things she has taught me. I am grateful for the way she taught me as well. She was never condescending-as though she was so wise and I was so small. Never. We were both people who were walking out this life with the Lord and we could learn from each other. She never lectured. She didn't have to. I heard her message by her actions.
That's the beauty of being an Auntie, you can be a pal instead of a parent.
We've stayed buddies for all these years. We still talk(and talk and talk...) on the phone regularly and I just soak up every last minute I can get. We still laugh at the silliest things, and she still brings joy to my heart.
I think Aunties are a special kind of thing. As an Auntie, you get the chance to love and play and have fun and give frozen yogurt treats for breakfast. Lunch. And Dinner. You can tell things to your Auntie that maybe you can't tell anyone else. She can be your pal while teaching you things you aren't even aware that your learning.
It wasn't until years later that I realized all the things I had learned from my Auntie V.
She gave me this plaque when I was a kid, because she said the little girl looked just like I did, and she loved the little poem.
It says:
God made little girls...
to laugh and dance and sing
with laughing eyes and bouncing curls,
with joyful hearts and infectious smile,
enchanting ways and feminine wiles.
For the world, when seen thru a little girl's eyes
greatly resembles paradise.
Whether you are an Auntie, or a friend who is like an Auntie, never forget the impact your kindness will have on a child. Remember that they will watch and listen and learn from you.
Teach them to love. It makes all the difference.
Thanks for reading.
